Friday, November 25, 2011

Few Pictures


Me and my toothless daughter


Nick and Alexis
Me Ryan and Landon
Triple the work but triple the love!

With Uncle Robblie
My favorite dish at any get together!!

Alexis with her Uncle Robbie (aka my brother)

This is why my kids LOVE uncle Robbie.

Aunt Tammy (my sister) with Ryan

My grandma with Nick
More wrestling with uncle Robbie

All my written words about Thanksgiving are on post after this one. I wrote first and it was just too long to then put pictures:)

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Nick's 10th Birthday



Nick with his best friend David

The kids

Grandpa with Ryan









 Cahty, Alan, Evan (David's parents) and "just like family"

So this past weekend we finally celebrated Nick's 10th birthday. We did not do a kid party and just had the family get together at my mom's house. Okay so Cathy and Alan aren't blood relatives BUT Cathy and I are like sisters so we just consider them family. It was kind of a squeeze into a very busy scheduled day kind of party. We had a hockey game that morning at 7:45am and then I rushed back to get the triplets and be back for the party at 11am. We had to squeeze it in before my mom took the grand kids to see a Phineas and Ferb show that afternoon. Clark was on call so he missed the birthday party and had the afternoon to himself. My mom's house is just over 30 minutes away. How convenient for him! Now that Nick is 10 we are really running out of "themes" to do for parties. He is getting too old for a lot and we already have done hockey. I left this up to my mom and in the end she made it a jelly bean theme b/c he loves them. Whatever!! She did all the decorations. Nick had a nice time. He loves presents!!! This year he got 3 wii games, 3 Lego's sets, knights, webkinz, art stuff, all the Pirates of the Caribbean movies, Blue ray Star wars movies 1-3 (b/c we lost number one and he wanted it again), new hockey stick, another wand from someone in Harry Potter and a case to display them, clothes (I get to open those b/c he doesn't care), light saber, bay blades (not sure spelling that right), other star wars figures (can't believe there are possibly any we don't have), pokemon cards, money box with 50.00, lots of other figure things he plays with. That is all I can remember right now. After cake and ice cream all the kids went swimming in my mom's pool one last time before she closed it down for the winter. It was like a giant hot tub b/c she always turns the temperature up so much (and spends a fortune doing so).

Last year on Nick's actual birthday (October 29th) I wrote a long post on how Nick was the best surprise of my life. Read it if you are interested in how Nick came to be!  He is a great kid and I am a lucky mom!

Sunday, November 6, 2011

Finally....Clark's Novel of His King Ridge Gran Fondo

So Christy has wanted me to write about the bike ride that I participated in a month ago in California.  I’m finally getting around to it, right on time.  First off, the best part about the ride wasn’t really the ride itself. The best part was getting to see some friends of mine, which I have known since high school, and I have not seen in over a decade.  Seeing Roque and Steve and their wives, Deena and Barb, was great.  We are all very fortunate to be doing well and all of us healthy.   I also got a chance to spend a couple hours with my Dad while in Cali.  It was good to see him doing so well at 86 years old.

The ride was great.  Sure the weather was not perfect and some of it was very challenging (actually quite difficult at parts) and we had some unfortunate luck at one point, but still, at the end, we all felt very good about the accomplishment.  We stayed at different hotels the night before the ride, Roque and Deena were at one place and I shared a room with Steve and Barb at another place (how lucky for them!!).   In the morning Barb and Deena dropped us off near to the start and we rode the last quarter mile to the starting line.  It was quite impressive. There were thousands of bikes and riders.  Some of bikes you could tell were very expensive (like thousands of dollars) and others looked to be 30 year-old cruisers.  Mostly, it was a lot of expensive bikes.  Spirits were high and the weather was nice.  Despite the crowd of people and equipment, the start was steady and uneventful.  Slow, but uneventful.  Eventually, we crossed the starting line and we were off.  We set off at an easy, comfortable pace.  Our plan was just to have fun and finish.   We were not racing.  It was a new experience for me.  I have ridden some in the past with friends (mostly with Roque and Steve and Gordon, another high school friend) but never with 1000’s of riders.  We were cruising at a good pace originally, near 20 mph, but it was not difficult to maintain with the crowd pulling us along.  We were doing well until the first hill.  Somehow I got separated from the others and I wasn’t sure if they were ahead of me or behind.  After slowing for awhile I decided to ride onto the first rest stop and reconnect with them there. We had decided we would stop at all the rest stops along the way.  We hooked up at the stop, no problem. We would get separated a few more times, but we would hook back up at each of the stops.  The stops were nice, they had lots of food, PB&J, lots of fruits, cookies, granola, energy food and drinks.  The fresh strawberries were especially delicious.

We hit the first climb right about at 31 miles, just after the second stop.  There was a sign that said, “17 hilly miles to next rest stop.”  “Hilly” was an understatement.  About 1500 vertical feet of ascent on roads with grades of 4-17%.  I would be riding along thinking the hill was about to end and saying to myself, “Just make it to the top of this hill” and then I would get to the top only to find it wasn’t the top and it kept going up.  Brutal.  But we were pumped and prepared for this first set of hills. Once we reached the next rest stop I was feeling pretty good about myself.  Unfortunately, my good spirit was about to change soon.  For one thing, the weather at the higher elevation was not quite as nice. The clouds had settled on the coastal mountains so everything above about 1100 feet was moist and cold.  Thanks to a good friend of mine at my work I had a riding vest and arm warmers that helped immensely.  Otherwise it would have been quite miserable.  The other disheartening realization that Roque revealed to me was that worst of the hills was yet to come.  I had a made a mental picture of the course and I believed we were at one location (the end of the first set of the big hills with only one more set of hills to go), when actually we were only half-way through the first set of hills.  We still had about 12 more miles and another 1000 foot of ascent with even steeper hills to get to where I thought we already were.  Initially, I was in disbelief.  We were at mile 44 and I was starting to feel it and now we had an extra 12 miles of hills I wasn’t mentally ready for. The chilly weather wasn’t helping.  But drive on we must, so we did.  I have to admit my morale was a little low at that point.

Before hitting the next hill there was a very treacherous downhill.  A 15-18% drop of wet road that took us to a valley between the coastal mountains heading to King Ridge (the summit of the ride).  At the base of the valley was a metal grate bridge over a river.  Metal road surface + water + skinny bicycle tires do not mix well.  There had been a crash at the site just before we got there (we had heard somebody was helicoptered out) and I understand why. The approach to the bridge was very steep and wet. They were requiring everyone to dismount and walk their bikes over the bridge.  It was all you could do just to stop your bike with the grade and wet brakes.  Just after we crossed the bridge a rider behind us could not stop and rode right into the group of riders on the bridge.  People and bikes were flying like bowling pins. Fortunately, no one was hurt.  We survived that adventure.

The next set of hills was very challenging. They were as steep, if not more so, than the last and seemed to be never ending.  As I mentioned above, I was not in the best frame of mind at the time.  I would climb a hill than make a hairpin turn going up only to find the road to be still climbing.  I would approach the crest of the hill only to find another hairpin turn going up more.  I really thought I was going to stop and walk the bike for a while.  But I didn’t.  I just kept telling myself just make it to the top of this hill.  Eventually we made it to the top, to King Ridge, and to the next stop.  The scenery was beautiful. Sure it was cold and wet and foggy and you couldn’t see the coast, but the foggy clouds over the distant mountain-tops were still a pretty awesome sight.  Our reception at the next stop, the lunch stop, could have been better.  The food and people were nice, but man was it cold and windy.  My stomach wasn’t feeling the greatest so I really wasn’t in the mood to eat, but I felt I had to eat something to survive the second half of the ride.  We huddle around a tent while eating to get out of the wind.  After probably too long we decided to leave.  The weather did not seem to be getting better so it was looking like it was going to be a long dismal wet ride.  The mist/rain had picked up making it harder to see and chilling you to the bone, especially when coasting into a strong breeze.  Had we known what was ahead we probably would have left the lunch stop a lot earlier. 

We had another set of very steep downhills  right after lunch. These were probably a little steeper than the first set of downhills, but not as bad because they weren’t quite as wet.  I have to admit, as brutal as the hills were I preferred them to the steep descent.  I was very nervous fearing I would crash and burn whenever we hit those steep downhills.  You can lose control very fast at 30 mph on a wet, steep, gravelly road.  I was pretty much riding the brakes down the whole way, hoping they wouldn’t fail.  But then, about 6 miles and 600 feet of descent later, a great thing happened.  The clouds disappeared, the temperature went up about 15 degrees and you could see about 20 miles up and down the beautiful pacific coast. It was awesome.  Suddenly my morale and my energy level surged.  We hit some other not as steep and very dry downhills along the coast where we were cruising at 30 or 35 mph and feeling good.  This was why we came.  It was a nice 15 miles of easy ride along the Pacific Coast Highway with perfect weather. The vest and arm warmers came off.  It was great. 

Soon enough we were at 75 miles and the next, and last, big hill, Coleman Valley Road.  This was the hill I feared.  Not because it was steeper or higher or longer than the other hills, but because it was at mile 75! Yeah, I was feeling the previous 75 miles and hills at this point.  I had my first (and thankfully only) fall at this point. Just as we started the ascent, as I was changing gears my chain came off. If I was a better rider (like Steve) I would have been able to get it back on with my shifters.  Unfortunately, I am not that good.  As my momentum slowed I started to lose my balance.  I tried to get my foot out of my clips, but with the mud (from walking around at the rest stops) they were stuck.  I knew I was going over so tucked my arm and prepared for impact.  I got a little scratched (and so did my iphone), but I survived.  The worst part was trying to get my shoes back in my clips as I was ascending the very steep hill.  Eventually I got it and I was off again.  The hill was challenging, but I knew it was the last big one so I pushed on.  As we got a little higher the clouds returned and the roads got a little wetter again. We made it to the top of Coleman Valley Road, about 900 feet of climb, to a brief water stop at the top.  I was very impressed by Roque at this point.  He was very strong up the hill and seemed to be cruising right along despite all the miles behind us.  There was one last stop at 82 miles then a flat cruise until the end, or so we thought.

Things were going great, the weather was good, the riding was easy and we could feel the end was near. Then, just as we were approaching a turn on one of the country roads, “Pop!”  Steve’s rear tire had blown. . . at mile 97! Just 6 miles to go.  No biggie, we changed the tire and about 15 minutes later we were off.  A little concerned, but moving again. We were concerned because Steve’s rear tire had a wear spot on it which had caused the blowout.  Steve had considered changing the tire before the ride and had even bought a new tire, but the tired looked okay so he decided to give it a go.  If only it was a 97 mile ride instead of 103!  So we’re moving along, again at good pace.  Now at mile 101, 2 miles to go, and “Pop!”  Not again, are you kidding us.  After a bit of grumbling and disbelief, we decided, let’s just change it out.  So, another 15 minutes and another tube later, we were off again.  The rest of the way went well and we crossed the finish line, somewhat unceremoniously.  Job well done.  After the last few setbacks and our casual pace during the ride, by the time we got to the post-ride festivities, most things were winding down.  We did get some of the paella, but we missed the beer (damn!).    Just as well, I first century ride but seeing old friends made it memorable.  Hopefully we can make this a regular event.  think we were ready to get back to the hotel, shower and get some real food.  Dinner was great and a nice end to a great day.

While parts of the ride were difficult or even a little miserable, I think it made the other parts that much more enjoyable.  The challenges, particularly the mental ones, made finishing the ride that much more of a significant achievement.  It was definitely an experience I will not forget.






Saturday, November 5, 2011

Halloween 2011 and Family Update












Sorry I have not updated in a long time. Today is a crazy busy day so I will try and type this very fast. Since you just saw the pictures I will start with Halloween. As you can see the boys were Star Wars characters and Alexis was a witch. I tried to get her to follow the theme but she wanted no part of it and really should not be forced to always do boy themes just b/c she has 4 brothers. Halloween night was a bit difficult b/c I still had to work that day. Clark was responsible for getting everyone ready. I would have dolled Alexis up a lot more and not incorrectly tied her sash around her back but overall they were dressed and ready to go on time and, more importantly, he did not forget to take pictures, so I was happy. I barely made it home on time to see them head out. I stayed behind to pass out candy since I was on call. Nick called it quits very early and decided this year he would rather just pass out candy. Kind of sad that he is too old to trick or treat! I didn't feel like we had as many kids this year. That coupled with the fact that I always buy about 20X too much candy, we had a TON left over. I have been trying hard to resist.  We dressed up at work. I was really not into this at all as I HATE dressing up for Halloween. I wasn't going to do it but at the last second I didn't want to be the only one not participating. Let me tell you Target had nothing left for adults when looking the day before. The best I could find was a pirate girl and while it sadly made me look like a slut it was better than any other option. I just assured everyone that I did in fact have black shorts under my way to short to be a pediatrician skirt. Rob got a good laugh at me all day long as I just kept pulling my shorts down before going into every room. I was uncomfortable all day long! I was also sexually harassed all day as the girls would not stop talking about my "hot ass" and sexy look. I can't tell you how many times during the course of the day the girls (ONLY THE GIRLS) grabbed my butt as they walked by. It is something I have just learned to live with at my work place. It was all in good fun!!! Next year I am going to be covered head to toe in a chicken outfit like Kimmie so as to not relive that experience. I actually thought that my own kids pediatrician's office had the cutest theme I have ever seen for an office. They were all pieces of candy. The picture was on facebook and they looked awesome. Go Hendricks Peds (so much more classy than me:)

Alexis had a gymnastics meet last weekend. I thought that nothing made me as nervous as gymnastics meet until the hockey games started this weekend. At least with gymnastics there really is a total of only 3 minute to be nervous b/c she only does 4 events and each event only lasts about 45 seconds. The meet as a whole was disappointing. I think overall her team sucks and is not comparable to other gyms. I think they take more of the philosophy of have fun and I am more of a lets try and be good and competitive. I found it embarrassed and really thought the coaches should have felt the same at the end of the day. Alexis did okay and was the best on her team. It was not her best performance in anything but she was consistent and did okay across the board. She did not fall or miss anything and for that I am thankful. She scored 4th on bars (score 9.025), 7th on beam (8.75), 7th on vault (8.9) and something like 10th on floor (8.45). She was 6th place overall. She got a medal in every event including overall so she was happy. If you ask her after meets how she did (meaning what place she got) she never knows. All she knows is if she got a medal or not. That girl is never nervous and almost always happy with how she did not matter what. Gosh I wish I was more like her. I personally am very frustrated with her gym right now. We are in it to be competitive. We don't want to be part of a gym that is 100% about winning but we just don't want to be embarrassed. I think after learning more about other gyms they need more practice time and as many of the moms have been complaining about need more strict structured focused coaching. I am not paying all this money for the coaches to hug all over my kid. I want them to teach her the routine. Teach it to the point of perfection. Leave the touchy feely crap at the door. Many of us are considering leaving our gym if things do not improve. (I actually wrote a much longer section on this topic but when I hit publish it disappeared so you all got lucky in that fact that I am out of time and will stop there). I am sure I will have a lot more to say about gymnastics after our next meet next weekend.

OMG this post keeps deleting what I write. I am guessing it is too long. What I had already typed was that it was Nick's 10th birthday on October 29th. I can't believe I am old enough to have a 10 year old. We have been so busy that we have not had a chance to really celebrate his birthday yet. We did go out for a family meal. His favorite food is chicken wings and we ate at Hurricane Grill in
Brownsburg (my favorite fast but sit down food) and that is what he got. If you haven't been and live in the area, they have great food (I say that but every single time I go, I get the same salad b/c I swear it is my favorite salad ever). After dinner I gave him the new Transformer movie and we attempted a family movie night. I think Nick, Clark and I were the only ones sitting on the couch watching the movie in the end. Alexis and the boys decided it was more fun to play all around us. We will have our family celebration of his birthday tomorrow after his hocky game. I am sure I will blog pictures of that later. We are not doing a kid party for any of our kids this year. We don't have the money to do one every single year and I never grew up doing that so it seems like too much to me.

This weekend is the start of hockey games. The stress this is causing me deserves a post in and of itself so I will save it for later.
I hope everyone is having a great weekend. I have a ton of stuff to talk about but no time to write......